You can be a player or you can get played!
The dating game breaks down just that simply. Either you play the game or get lost in it.
Now more than EVER BEFORE women like YOU need to learn the ART of dating smart.
We are living in a DAY and AGE where men do not feel obligated to marry the woman they impregnate, let or known pay for dinner after the first date. In fact, men today often feel entitled to sex from a woman even if they haven’t known her more than a few hours and haven’t spent a DIME on her. Crazy right?
The good old days where men COURTED women and dated them respectfully for a year or more before popping the question ARE OVER!
This is why:
In the past, SOCIETY placed high expectations on men and their relationships with women.
- Treat her like a lady.
- Open the car door.
- Take her to a nice restaurant date one.
- Show her you care about her.
- Don’t waste her time, make an honest woman out of her.
- If you get her pregnant, do the right thing.
But all of THAT is in the PAST. Times have changed…
Men are no longer obligated to marry their high school sweetheart. They are no longer responsible for the woman they impregnate. They are no longer expected to DO THE RIGHT THING in relationships. In fact, things have changed so much in recent times, men are NOW encouraged to play the field—to grab hold to as many women as they can and PLAY them for all their worth.
- Get her number and get the bootay
- Make her think a relationship is possible…even if your plans are to hit it and quit it
- Settle down only when you want to, don’t let her force you into anything serious
- Have as much sex as you want with as many women as you can handle.
We are no longer living in an age where men feel obligated to DO THE RIGHT THING, where men are raised to TREAT WOMEN RIGHT, where bad romantic actions are frowned upon and reprimanded.
TODAY, dating is like the wild, wild West. It’s like free skate on Saturdays at the roller rink.
Yes, WOMEN can now date more freely (multiple lovers, back-to-back relationships, etc)—without much scrutiny from the masses, AND MEN TOO can date freely—without the conservative obligations of the past. And that’s a beautiful thing! Women are FREE to do as they please dating wise…and so are men!
Never before has the playing field been so even…
What isn’t so beautiful however…is the REALITY of the dating game. Things are not as EVEN (in terms of dating) IN 2013 as they appear.
Women —even beautiful, successful, intelligent women— are getting played left and right, often entering their 30’s and 40’s heartbroken and disenchanted with men. The SOCIAL and SEXUAL FREEDOM women are now ALLOWED (by society) sounds great in theory, but it’s the application of those FREEDOMS that is presenting a challenge.
Many women don’t know the rules of the dating game or how to apply those rules—which makes them prime targets for MEN who are masters of THE GAME.
Today a woman COULD have her pick of the litter and enjoy an exhilarating and satisfying dating life. She could be a REAL PLAYER—dating on her own terms…BUT many women (sadly) are LOST in THE GAME.
They are essentially FISH in a pool of (good looking) sharks.
- They fall for the wrong guys because they don’t know how to spot a man who is manipulating them for money/sex.
- They misinterpret things men say and are confounded by the mixed signals men give them.
- They believe in the fantasy of a man’s appearance/representation instead of looking beyond the cover to see the truth inside.
- They give up DATE ONE or TWO the one bargaining chip that gives them the advantage.
[HE LOVES ME…HE LOVES ME NOT]
Many women are lost in the dating game….unnecessarily I might add.
Let me tell you why!
While GIRLS are in the kitchen with mom learning how to make their father’s favorite dish…lil brother is in the den with dad learning how to pick up chicks. While mom is busy showing her daughter how to boil water, dad is teaching her brother how to unsnap a bra with one hand. While girls learn how to paint their faces and nails, boys are learning the FUNDAMENTALS of MACKING.
THE YOUNG GIRLS birds and the bees talk consisted of things like DON’T and DON’T and DON’T—Don’t give it up too soon; don’t get pregnant; don’t stay out too late…but little brother was getting a message along the lines of…DO get some p&ssy and GO FOR ‘IT’ and YOU can HIT THAT (just tell her what she wants to hear)!
What a disparity! What a mess.
Fast forward a few years. That GIRL is now a young woman. That woman is YOU!!!
Yes, you are slowly, painstakingly picking up on the mind games men play, but as soon as you have one GAME down, another one seems to present itself. You are learning THE GAME but the process is taking longer than you really have.
[TICK TOCK, TICK TOCK GOES THE BIOLOGICAL CLOCK]
Now that’s where a chick like me comes in! I’m an expert in this thing called dating. They call me the Female Mack—the Dating Game Expert, but you can call me Butta—Butta ‘Fly’ Jonez to be exact.
I’m a certified, bonafide player in my own right, which qualifies me to TEACH YOU the rules of the dating game! I not only know HOW men think, I can tell you how to flip the script in any situation—how to get what you want from the men you date without compromising your SELF in any way. And that’s essentially what being a female player is. It’s dating strategically and effectively, knowing how to date in ways that are satisfying and beneficial….WITHOUT COMPROMISE!
I CAN TEACH YOU THE ART of MACKING! I can teach you HOW to PLAY the DATING GAME!!!
I have assembled the basics…the fundamentals of macking (for women) in my book “How to be a Female Player”.
You can learn (from me - the FEMALE MACK) how to PLAY the DATING GAME like real players do.
- No more sleepless nights wondering where HE is!
- No more marathon phone calls with girlfriends trying to figure out how to snag HIS attention!
- No more confusion about how to TAME or GAME the one you’ve chosen!
You will know HOW to get what you want from men!
You can be a #femaleplayer. Let me show you how!
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